Yeah it's late and probably not a great time for me to be blogging, but I feel the truth always comes out in the late night/early morning so I'm about to let it rip.
Okay ahem *clearing throat and stepping on my soap box*, tonight I understand why women become bitter with men. Guys I used to be a neutral party in this battle of the sexes but I can't sit back and be inactive any longer. Guys and Ladies we have to get it together. Ladies, know that dating and finding a mate is kind of like the present housing market. It's a buyers market!!! We are struggling to make it a sellers market by pretending we have control over men and how we can get them to want/accept/love us but the truth of the matter is it's too many of us out there that are available. We are competing against each other when it has nothing to do with us at all. It's all about the man making up his own mind on what he wants. Does this mean you stand on the side line and wait?? No ma'am you will not, you will continue to groom and perfect yourself. Make sure you are able to take care of yourself in the case that when you do find the one and he dies or leaves, you won't be helpless. I'm tired of seeing us break down because of some dude...STOP IT!!!! Like the Bible says in Colosians 3:2 we should set our minds on heavenly things. I know in a world filled with self indulgence it seems hard to focus on the things of God. Pleases believe I understand it can get down right laborious just to wake up and go to church on Sunday morning for a couple hours, never mind contemplating on what's taught in church for that whole week. But when it gets down to it, life will be so much simpler. If we could all get on the page of bettering ourselves instead of chasing down a man, life would be so much easier. You wouldn't have to worry if he still respects you, actually wants you, or is willing to introduce you to his mother (that's the biggest test).
Where is this coming from you may ask, some years of experience. Yeah I've been there, done that, and I'm writing the blog about it. I still to this day still slip into the old mind set of trapping and keeping a man, but it always backfires into a tragedy. I was engaged, I guess you can say, twice and neither of those turned out right. All because I believed it was a sellers market. If you don't remember anything please remember this, no matter how good you think you are, some one else is WILLING to do better. You can't compete with every women in the world, it's not possible. The only thing you can control is who you are as a person. Never let a man make you feel incompetent as a woman because you aren't willing do what the 15 other women would do to get what they think is a good man.
If you take this post to be bitter, you shouldn't. You should think of it more as being fed up with up the actions of weak women and ignorant men. Randomly having sex or going against your morals WILL NOT get you what you want. You may ask "why this chick thinks she an expert" because I don't want you to go down the same road I've been down. Remember ladies, it's a buyers market so prep yourself to be bought and not rented.
